It's official... I am over-extended. Thankfully this realization, which has been coming on for about 6 months now has finally proven factual. I have received email after email and phone call after phone call about the various commitments I have made. I have raced back and forth to and from work and this kids school more times than I can count this week and it is only Wednesday. And now in the midst of it all, I have an epiphany. I am over-committed! And now to determine the best course of action to resolve this predicament. You ask, how did I finally discover what so many people have been telling me for years. I ordered my husband's 40th birthday cake from Costco. The simple act which took all my strength to muster sent me to this place. I am incapable of making my husband's birthday cake. I am incapable of personalizing it that way I feel it should be. I am letting myself down. Thankfully, he will praise me up and down for recognizing that somethings gotta give and that I am moving in the direction to resolve it!